"Happy" After

To build and maintain a healthy relationship there are things you must do. one thing is to show appreciation/respect for one another. you also have to build healthy relationship patterns and explore each others interests. Also establish a pattern of saying sorry to each other in a fight. you also have to realize that relationships do change and you have to deal with that and try and make it work with each other. Don't just give up when it gets hard, because it will get better in the end. Don't just run away for your problems you have to deal with conflict and talk it out, its NORMAL. If you just run away from your problems you'll never have a healthy relationship because you'll have unsolved problems in your relationships. Say what you mean and be clear with what you are saying DONT MUMBLE.!!!! Mumbling is the worst thing ever, if anything its going to make things worse. Communication is sooooo important, if you don't communicate then you don't know if the person is sad, mad, happy, etc. Communication also comes in with making big decisions in your life, like sex, career, marriage, and family. Sex is also a big part because you have to know when you're ready nad if you're not if your partner will wait until you're ready, and if they don't then they weren't the one for you in the first place. Career you need to talk about just in case you have to move, is your spouse going to be ready for that? These are all things that you need to be able to talk about. I gave examples of this with my grandparents in my first blog. So this wraps up this blog:)!!!!